Winning and Mastery vs Collaboration and Guardianship
Many self development/ self mastery gurus argue that you have to control and master negative emotions like fear, anger, envy and frustration. However, this strategy requires a huge amount of energy, constant effort and persistent vigilance.
I am all for doing things the easy, more comfortable way that conserves resources and requires as little time, effort and energy as possible – rather spend that energy, time and effort, not on control (over), domination, force, coercion and doing things under duress – because what you resist, persists – but rather working with it (collaborating), using it to your advantage, transcending it, transmuting it, transforming it, because you are comfortable with who and what you are (warts and all). If you don’t have to protect or hide your warts, or deny that you have them, because you love them, you aren’t wasting energy on inconsequentialities.
Having a mindset of a winner means others don’t win, they come second or lose; whereas having the mindset of a guardian means everyone wins.
Your first responsibility is to be a guardian to yourself – to make sure you have the capacity to be a guardian to/for others.
Develop the mindset of a guardian with conscious awareness, competence, intention, compassion, responsibility & accountability…
Optimize energy utilization
The ultimate quality of any living organism is that of energy, so your health is of paramount importance to your existential wellbeing [mental, emotional, spiritual, and physical]. Without your vehicle running smoothly – you limit what you are capable of; where you can go, who you can assist, for how long, and so on.
Some of the ways to approach challenges is to face obstacles with an open mind and an explorative frame of reference, to view setbacks as mere inconveniences, problems as opportunities, and move forward with confidence, a sense of adventure and inspiration.
Taking inspired action means you have the motivation and energy to endure pain, setbacks, discomfort and sacrifice, if required. You know what you want and take the appropriate actions to ensure success without compromise.
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Success is inevitable
Pursue your goals with the belief and internal faith that they will be achieved and you will enjoy victory against all odds.
Create an internal locus of drive; build up immunity against self-doubt, negativity, limiting thoughts and the opinions and criticism of others. Affirm yourself for the magnificent being you are. Your set of flaws and gifts is what makes you unique and special.
Ignite the Genius Within
One thing I’ve learned in life is that there is a quality deep within that is magnificent; impregnable, unconquerable, invincible, impenetrable, indomitable – the human spirit. The only way it can be destroyed, is if you let it/ allow it…
Find that space, nurture it… and salvation is yours.
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